Elopements: Can you self-solemnize in Hawaii?

Do you want your wedding ceremony to just be the two of you and the beautiful Hawaii scenery? If you want to privately exchange vows and omit many aspects of the traditional ceremony, Hawaii is the perfect place to do it! I love the idea of non-traditional wedding ceremonies. More and more couples are breaking away from tradition and forging their own path with an elopement ceremony that suits them as a couple.

What is Self-Solemnization?

Self-solemnization is a self-uniting marriage. The couple can legally solemnize their own marriage without the presence of a third-party officiant. In states where self-solemnization is legal, the marriage is recognized as a legal marriage in the United States.

Is Self-Solemnization legal in Hawaii?

Unfortunately, no. In Hawaii, marriage ceremonies must be performed by someone licensed to perform or solemnize marriages in the State of Hawaii. Technically, a witness needs to be present as well but the officiant or photographer can fill that role. But, there's good news! I am ordained and licensed by the state of Hawaii to perform marriages. If you want a private ceremony without the guidance of an officiant, you can privately exchange vows on one of Hawaii's breathtaking beaches or lush, tropical backdrops. In addition to photographing this special moment for you, I can sign your marriage license and handle post-wedding paperwork.

What do I need to elope in Hawaii?

Obtaining a marriage license is fairly quick and easy in Hawaii. You can even get your marriage license during business hours on the same day you wish to have your ceremony if your ceremony will be on a weekday (excluding holidays). To obtain your marriage license you will need a valid ID for proof of identity and age. If you have been married previously, you may need to present proof of dissolution of past marriages. The application fee to apply for a marriage license in Hawaii is $60 plus an additional $5 administration fee. You must have the ceremony within 30 days of the marriage license being issued. For official instructions and laws regarding the elopement process, visit the state department.